Bastards and Bigotry is a segment I've wanted to do for some time now. Thanks to the anonymous commenting troll Etseq, the opportunity has presented itself and it's time!
Within any group there are people who exhibit characteristics of intolerance, pride, hate and bastard-like symptoms. Christians have people like Kim Davis while my LGBT community has people like Etseq.
F*** YOU ETSEQ!
Yesterday's commenting troll Etseq has very strong opinions about my lifestyle choice to stay married to my wife despite my sexual orientation. To the degree of which he/she exhibits bigotry toward me and my family because we do not agree. To Etseq, I proudly exclaim... FUCK YOU! (In my opinion) Who are you to tell me what is right for me and my family?
PLAY NICE CODY!
Okay that wasn't nice. I should have said, "Aren't we all trying to be happy and live the best life we can?" Chill out you narcissistic jerk. Go for a run, climb a mountain or serve somebody. You will feel much better about yourself than you do when you waste 2 hours of your life writing hateful, intolerant, and bigotous (I made that word up) comments on a blog you don't agree with.
The irony of your comment(s) is that in an attempt to sound smart with big words like "homonormativity," you actually bring to light your ignorance. Dont assume that everybody's life experiences and thought processes are just like yours because they arent. You are so consumed with your personal soapbox that you are unable to think outside your own experience.
LET ME ADDRESS YOUR CONCERNS
To be fair to my trolling, anonymous fan Mr./Mrs. Etseq, let me address your concerns/accusations one by one. According to Etseq, I am:
I suppose its possible but I wouldn't realize it if I was. I think I just love my family and want to be with them.
YES... VERY SELFISH! This is the one accusation from Etseq with that I agree. My behavior has been and is sometimes VERY selfish. I'm working on it. Are you?
This is a bold accusation for somebody who doesn't know me or my family. Etseq is invited to spend a Friday BBQ with us to make the judgement for him/herself.
This is the one of the biggest LIES some bigots from my LGBT community spread. I could write an entire post just on this issue. For my marriage, I have learned that I can be enough for my partner. It's not my right to decide what is best for her or if she should stay with me or not. She makes her own choices but I can love her better than anybody else and I am great in bed (or at least I tell myself i am).
LOL... Seriously? Tell ya what... Post my blog in 100 different locations in an attempt to 'expose' me for the fraud you think I am, and I will pay you $1 for every post to thank you for the advertising.
Strange accusation considering you considered me a closeted gay to avoid the stigma but I'll bite on this one too.
Yes I am, and so are countless others in the LGBT community. So what!?