BIGOTRY belongs to those who show intolerance towards others who share different OPINIONS than they. The BASTARDRY comes when they attempt to force those opinions on others and try to make you feel shame if you do not agree.
F*** YOU ETSEQ!
Yesterday's commenting troll Etseq has very strong opinions about my lifestyle choice to stay married to my wife despite my sexual orientation. To the degree of which he/she exhibits bigotry toward me and my family because we do not agree. To Etseq, I proudly exclaim... FUCK YOU! (In my opinion) Who are you to tell me what is right for me and my family?
PLAY NICE CODY!
Okay that wasn't nice. I should have said, "Aren't we all trying to be happy and live the best life we can?" Chill out you narcissistic jerk. Go for a run, climb a mountain or serve somebody. You will feel much better about yourself than you do when you waste 2 hours of your life writing hateful, intolerant, and bigotous (I made that word up) comments on a blog you don't agree with.
The irony of your comment(s) is that in an attempt to sound smart with big words like "homonormativity," you actually bring to light your ignorance. Dont assume that everybody's life experiences and thought processes are just like yours because they arent. You are so consumed with your personal soapbox that you are unable to think outside your own experience.
LET ME ADDRESS YOUR CONCERNS
To be fair to my trolling, anonymous fan Mr./Mrs. Etseq, let me address your concerns/accusations one by one. According to Etseq, I am:
1) Locked into a sexist paradigm
3) Not capable of full-filling his wife emotionally or sexually
4) A closeted gay because I don't want the stigma
5) Homophobic and pretending to be gay (or something like that, I'm not exactly sure)
6) Obviously still working this his own sexuality
Bottom line is this... Nobody has the right to tell others how to live their lives. We might not entirely agree with others, but that doesn't give us the right to act like ass holes (unless somebody critiques your blog with smart ass remarks.)