August 02nd, 2016

8/2/2016

I'm a bit of an emotional wreck today. Headed to the court house in a bit to see a judge about our divorce papers. I HATE the process and I really miss my best friend of 10 years. I wish it wasn't what it is or that she was a b***** so I had a reason to hate her but I can't because she is perfect.

I knew there were consequences of my choice but today I really hate them. I want to fast forward to the day when we can be besties again.

Sorry, just had to vent and I feel like this was a good place.

Brett

8/3/2016 12:38:39 pm

I just happened to follow a link from an old NS post and saw this. I'm so sorry to hear that things are tough for you and your family right now. You don't know me, but know that I'll be praying for all of you, for whatever that's worth. Hang tough.

Bob

8/3/2016 01:08:45 pm

So sorry about this, Cory. I've been fighting the same battle my whole life. I'll be praying for you and your wife and family. I can't imagine how hard this must be.

Larry

8/3/2016 01:29:45 pm

I am moved by how hurt you must be. My experience has been different
Wish I could heal your pain and hurt but not for me, that's why he's called savior liberator comforter etc

Dave

3/4/2017 01:03:07 pm

Cody, I heard you on Rick Clemons' podcast back in 2015, when you were optimistic that things would work out with you staying married. I am 51, married 23 years, two daughters 9 and 15. I came out to my wife 5+ years ago, and we have struggled ever since, making zero headway. I am so lost and so paralyzed. I see others in similar situations who either (a) work out some sort of way to stay married, however happily that may be or (b) split up and move forward with their lives. We are in apparently option (c), which is stay in quicksand and both slowly die inside. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you and your wife, but you're young, sexy, self-assured. I'm sure life will be good for both of you after this is passed. For me, I'm lost and I don't know how life will go. Best of luck. - Dave

cody shirley

3/5/2017 08:46:59 am

Dave,

Thanks man for commenting on this. Thank you for being vulnerable and expressing how you and so many men/women feel. I'd like to write a post specifically addressing your concerns because I think there are others that will benefit from it. It might take me an hour or it might take me a couple of days but I promise to respond. I want to make it good, so please be patient.

Respectfully,
Cody Shirley

Help! I'm Gay.

August 02nd, 2016

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